Dating someone fresh off a LTR July 11, The guy I'm anjone is six months from his last real contact with his ex partner of 16 years. I think he moved out a year before that. We've been seeing each other just over an intense month. He feels guilt for things he did early in their relationship that he Dating anyone ltr poisoned it and hurt her deeply. Apparently there were apologies, never quite forgiveness, lots of resentment on both sides.
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Should I not accept this kind of messiness, am I disrespecting myself? Because I want to be with someone who wants to be with me. But I also know lr grey things can get.
I don't know how much time to give him for this. It took me two years to work my ex out of my system, and we weren't together half the time they were. I didn't try to actually date anyone, though. I've also known couples that married a year after one of them divorced or split.
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I'm afraid of intimacy or feeling it and losing Dating anyone ltr - maybe I wanted to head that off at the pass. He does have friends he talks to I'm a careful listener with - I guess - some kind of fucked up listening agenda He later said he hadn't thought about pulling back until that conversation.
He just feels bad that he hurt her.
I think he's also just having a hard time living alone, and probably misses the comforts of coupledom. And, Dating anyone ltr a huge chunk of your life, 15 years. You can't really think of that time without the other person in it.
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